Celebrating the Life of my Mentor
A few years ago, I wrote about one of my delightful friends who passed away. Sadly, today I write of another enchanting woman who made a difference in my life.
Marjorie and Chuck Harkins and their family had moved from California to Illinois, and we instantly connected as dear friends. They became the leaders of our youth group at church and were well loved and respected friends and teachers. As we worked together (I was in high school), Marjorie showed me most of what I know about entertaining.
Marjorie made the simplest event into an extravagantly elegant affair. She arranged every table with fine dining in mind. Her food had a ‘California flair’ that impressed us simple Illinois folk!
Though I think I have been able to somewhat follow Marjorie’s example in decorating for a party, I failed miserably in the cooking department! She used to make this beautifully tasty strawberry pretzel Jell-O dish. I loved her layered sandwich loaves which she decorated so beautifully. Mercy! My attempts were not only butt-ugly, I missed something in the translation of her recipes!
I had just found I was pregnant with Stephanie when my parents were transferred out of state. Our dear friends became even closer, and we bonded as family. Holidays were spent together with Uncle Chuck and Aunt Marjorie. Tiffany and Craig entertained our little girls with kindness and love. Marjorie and Chuck were great encouragers to Ronald and me as young parents.
Marjorie’s generosity, not only with her time but with her love and giving heart, was legendary. My girls were often recipients of frilly slips and ruffle-butt panties. The knitted dresses and sweaters she made for my girls will soon be worn by my youngest granddaughter, Josie.
Marjorie used to be a representative for Home Interiors. Through the years, my friends and I enjoyed her parties, adorned our walls with her products, and followed her sage decorating advice. Somewhere along the way, my decorating style has changed from ‘Marjorie Sophisticated’ to ‘Kara Beth Chaotic’. I still go by her counsel to group odd numbers of items – which means if I find a new shell to hot glue to the wall, I get to glue maybe five or seven!
Marjorie had a voice that would knock your socks off! How she hit those high notes! Her singing was wonderful but her heart for God was always displayed clearly in every song. I know today she has her voice back and is rejoicing with the angels.
Ronald and I talked this morning, recalling some of the funny stories she told on herself and those we saw up close and personal. Sometimes, we smile and use Marjorie’s line – ‘Sometimes I just think funny things!’ Some people have a bubbly, joyful spirit. Marjorie certainly did as she faced the trials of life with grit and humor.
Most importantly, Marjorie knew and lived for Jesus. I will see her again and get to enjoy her beautiful spirit. Until then, I will remember her with love and try to emulate her love for the Lord. Though Marjorie was only a few years older, her example and mentoring greatly impacted my life.
I’m sure Marjorie heard, “Well done, good and faithful servant … Enter into the joy of your Lord.”
Blessings
KB
